Dear Narendra Modi, Amitabh Bachchan, Sachin Tendulkar, Shahrukh Khan, Salman Khan, Aamir Khan and Anil Ambani,
I am writing to YOU specifically because you are the most powerful and influential MEN in our country.
I am writing to you as a woman who grew up in a middle class family in Mumbai.
I am writing to YOU for HELP!
My parents may not like me saying this. I apologize to them if they are reading but this is NOT MY SHAME. It’s THIER SHAME.
My first experience with the opposite sex, was when I was just 13 and groped by a man (never saw his face but will never forget his hand) while walking in the vegetable market with my mom. She had just given me the worst haircut and as an angry teenager I was upset at her and was lagging behind as she walked ahead. I still remember what I was wearing. It was her dress, mustard with flowers and little bow in the front. How I hate that dress! As if, it was the dress’s fault.
I was shocked at first. Speechless. He disappeared. I just stood there. Tears started pouring out of my innocent eyes. I told my mom who went mad screaming in the market but who knew where that man disappeared to. I still remember the dirty feeling I had and the number of times I showered in my grand-mom’s bathroom after. That feeling never went away.
Shenaz Treasurywala
Since then it was non-stop. I would try to articulate this to my parents and while my mom understood, my dad and uncles told me I was imagining it. Maybe they just couldn’t deal with it. CAN YOU?
When I was 15, I started going by train and bus to St. Xaviers’ College. I was groped and touched and from all angles and this was just how I grew up. Not Just Me but MOST INDIAN WOMEN who don’t have the luxury of cars and drivers.
As a teenager I would dream of and still sometimes dream that I had a machine gun and could kill all the men who tried to grope me. A very disturbing dream for a kid, don’t you think?
I got my first assignment as a model in the FYJC and I had to go to screen-tests straight from college. So I had to dress nice, didn’t make it any easier. I specifically remember the time I went for an audition in a red body suit and a black long skirt with slits. It was HELL! I never wore that again. As if it was the dress’s fault.
I developed ways to defend myself, I always carried a bag in front of me, my fist was always clenched, I always turned around every 20 seconds to check who was behind me and a few times I slapped men who touched me, I got slapped back many times too. Sometimes saved by the public, MOST TIMES NOT.
My mom begged me not to pick fights with men who touched me, she was afraid of acid being thrown at me or that somebody someday would hurt me badly. She is STILL AFRAID and today she told me not to take an UBER to my meeting tomorrow. Hell ya. BAN UBER! Make everyone take responsibility for this.
My sister got into Sophia’s college, we were all excited. She went by bus but the first day she came home, she sobbed traumatized. A man had put his hand in her tee-shirt through her sleeve, the entire bus ride. She just froze. She was a kid too and wasn’t equipped to even understand this. I was LIVID. I’m sorry sis for telling the world this, please don’t stop speaking to me. IT’S NOT Our Shame. It’s THEIRS!
One of my friends in college was RAPED on the train on her way home in the ladies compartment. She was sick and was going home in the 11:15 break. There was nobody in the first class compartment going back to Bandra at that time, it was a superfast meaning it didn’t stop at most stations. He raped her and then jumped off after using her scrunchy (hair tie) to wipe himself. She was the only one on the train and had to limp her way back to her home in Bandra, bleeding profusely. She was just 16. This she felt was her shame so she did not say anything to anyone.
BUT IT ISN’T HER SHAME, it’s THEIR SHAME.
My mom accompanied me to Hyderabad on a shoot once. In churi bazaar, a cyclist groped My MOM. My dear respected and lovely MOM.
Sorry Mom, IT’S NOT Our Shame, It’s THEIR SHAME.
Why am I telling you my personal story?
Well first I want all women to Speak Up.
Let’s make this our MOTTO-
It’s not OUR SHAME, it’s THEIR SHAME.
Who are “THEY”?
“THEY” ARE THE MEN IN OUR COUNTRY.
Not just the rapists and the sexual offenders and gropers but also our Fathers (sorry dad) and Uncles and Brothers and MOVIE STARS AND CRICKETERS AND POLITICIANS for not SAVING US or PROTECTING US by insisting and protesting for the LAWS TO CHANGE and Rapists and Gropers to BE PUNISHED SEVERELY!
Why do we as women have to feel so threatened? WHY has there been no severe action taken? This has gone on for years now. Not just in Delhi but all over our country and yes even in BOMBAY OR MUMBAI OR Whatever the hell you want to call it! It’s NOT SAFE. NO!
My biggest fear ever since I was kid and even today when I walk back home at night from yoga or when I take a rickshaw from a friend’s home is being RAPED. I still feel that fear. I am still am on guard. I still fantasize of having that MACHINE GUN.
In the past 4 years I have been living and working half in India and half in New York and let me tell you I have walked the streets of Harlem, the Bronx and Brooklyn (perceived as the most dangerous in NYC) at3am after parties in short skirts and felt safer than I feel in Bandra at 10 pm on a quiet road fully covered. WHY??
Let’s talk about Delhi our Capital. I was there 2 days ago and the day of the rape. I wanted to go out and walk by India Gate and admire our great monuments but could I?! Why??
What good are all your speeches in the US or Japan or AUSTRALIA- NAMO, if no woman can walk freely in the streets even in broad daylight by herself in the CAPITAL OF OUR COUNTRY. Isn’t this a SHAME? SHAME ON YOU SIR.
This is our NO1 issue. FIX THIS before anything else.
This is a SHAME. And it’s YOUR SHAME. You are now RESPONSIBLE FOR US.
I beg all of you fine gentlemen that I have addressed to help change the LAW.
You are powerful men. I say, SHAME and PUNISH THE Gropers and Sexual offenders severely. KILL THE RAPISTS.
I won’t ask for public castration which is what I want and all the women want because I know this is unrealistic and things move SO DAMN SLOW in our FINE NATION.
All I ask for is the -Death Penalty Please. NOW! QUICK!
If that’s too hard or will take too long then at least LIFE IMPRISONMENT.
Put them away forever.
Why was this man who had raped twice before out on bail?
And then given a drivers license? YES, BAN UBER TOO. Make everyone responsible.
I’m ready to do anything. I’m not a big enough celeb but you Sachin Tendulkar, Amitabh Bachchan, Salman Khan, Sharukh Khan, Aamir Khan, Anil Ambani SIRS- need to speak up as MEN ( you are the men with the power)
SAVE US!
Please demand the Death Sentence for the Rapists.
NO BAIL. Just Death.
Superstars I beg you, please take a stand. Use your Superstardom and Power and MONEY and save the women of our country. SAVE US!
I urge you to protest or go on a fast or do something DRASTIC so people take notice, the government wakes up and CHANGES the LAW so these men are terrified to touch us.
Death to rapists. No bail. Just death.
Imagine Amitabh Bachchan Sir, Aamir Khan, Salmaan Khan, Sachin Tendulkar, Anil Ambani- if you went on a fast or walked to the Rashrtrapati In Delhi. If you, took this stand and made this YOUR NO 1 issue, how much change there would be?!
Why should we as women feel so unsafe in our motherland?!
Why should we as women be terrified and on guard all the time.
Why was this man out on bail after committed two rapes already ?
Make an Example Of Him.
Any man who even touches a woman should be imprisoned for life.
Be strict, make examples of these men, scare those who dare to touch us.
SCARE THEM BY MAKING AN EXAMPLE OUT OF THEM.
SAVE US, Save your mother, daughter, sister please!
This is NOT OUR SHAME.
THIS IS YOURS.
SHAME ON YOU.
Don’t sleep till you – SAVE YOUR WOMEN!
With all respect,
Shenaz Treasurywala
I too stay in Mumbai and believe me whenever my sister is late by 15-20 minutes from her regular time I too get tensed and most of the time looses my temper on her only for being late. I always think that why we can not feel safe for our family members be it wife, sister, daughter or mother. Finally we have decided to leave our country where we can not get basic security measures. Being a man I am not ashamed in sharing that it is not only the females which are unsafe even males too feel unsafe in going out during night time. I remember once I was at Kurla station at 11:50 p.m. and two strangers came to me and started forcing me to come out of the station and have tea with them and when I refused they told me that they will not allow me to catch train, somehow I managed to got rid of them but there were no cops whom I could approach.
All the citizens of India,
Yesterday i was walking near my room along with my rummates. I and my three other rummates havn’t gone out together since we shifted our rum last month. On the way back, there is a tapri sort of place where 10-20 boys are always present (Everyone watch every crossing girl from top to bottom, if girl is beautiful they watch front and back too but if girl is not so gud, they just watch her back). When we were crossing that tapri, two fat men came out of Indica and saw four of us and started passing vulgar comments. We passed and heard them laughing and shouting at us till they were inaudible.
You guys just imagine the situation in your mind and tell me how you feel.
There were almost 10-15 guys present there and I guess nobody would have helped us if we would have protested to those two fat men.
You want to know what comes in a girl’s mind when she goes through this kind of situation!!!!
Let me tell you all… Its the same machine gun thought, which shehnaz has mentioned, in their own way. What I thought yesterday was to gift those fat guys a punch in between their legs… Ya.. you read it correct.
And you people know why I couldn’t dare to do that !!!!!
Because I knew that I cant fight back with that man alone,,, I need people around to help me but guess what… I am hopeless of our citizens.. I couldn’t expect that anyone would help me and so, I had to dropped the idea of protesting against those person. And I just had to walk on with all that guilt and anger within myself that I (and most of the girls n women like me) am helpless and insecure and nobody is to do anything about it.
And let me tell you that it is not the only shameful incident that has happened to me and my friends… I am 24 and I can write a 240 page book on it. There are more, and as everyday passes, these incidents grow countless.
But guess what !!!! NOBODY IS GOING TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
And due to this reason only, I want to leave India permanently because I don’t want that when I marry and have a Baby girl, I had to teach her from her childhood that she has to go through all this like I did.
I FEEL ASHAMED TO BE BORN AS FEMALE IN INDIA AND I AM NOT ASHAMED TO ADMIT IT.
yes. The celebrities standing up for this cause will definitely make an impact. Unfortunately until and unless the other MEN standing doing nothing and standing helpless around when this is happening is what encourages the gropers and rapists to keep committing the crimes in public. PLEASE DO SOMETHING..make a DIFFERENCE!!
Bravo! Shehnaz, you’ve done really really a great job my dear! The most powerful men of country must have to wake up now!!
I salute this lady….Shenaz Treasurywala……u spoke behalf of us……I am really proud of this……When I was a kid, me too faced all this….but didn’t understood such things….but understood that it was bad…….I am married today but things didn’t change…….it is all same…….me too was groped by a man few months before in bus…….these people should get that type of punishment that should be remembered by all those type of men who will think at least twice before doing such crimes……..molestation is common for all ladies…..why such thing should happen……Our prime minister should look upon on this…..Its from all ladies living in this country……
THANK YOU
Salute you, Shenaz! I used to watch your MTV programmes when I was in school (when MTV was still Music Television), and I am still a fan. Hard to believe that behind your smiling face and bubbly demeanor you had suffered so much at the hands of these animals in our society! If this is the case of a well-to-do woman, imagine what the poorer women in our country must be going through! I seriously hope and wish that our so-called “rulers” and administrators wake up and instead of hollow promises get out to make these criminals pay for what they are doing to the women of our nation… Stay strong Shenaz, we are all with you!
I agree the fact that…wt ever happened with Female in this country (of this subject) is a bad thing which need to be condemned…. Same time I agree the fact that Men are supposed to protect the people while in this type of situations…not rape them…. But question is a self awareness or self consciousness that “I am going to late night today” “I am drunk at this late night shouldn’t go alone”
“I am alone and I shouldn’t be drunk coz I have to get back home safely”
Any of those things happened?….. Bad things happens but it can be avoided with few care moves isn;t it?
Everyone can’t blame on one side when this happened. You Gas Stoves cable have small leak, and it is under warranty or guarantee of its performance from the company…. Still when you came in home drunk and switched on light or lighter… it got blasted and you got hurt….. Is that really company’s problem???
When I ask this don’t throw argument or fire on me…. i am just saying…. it could has been avoided…. Of course men was aware of this is happening in the vicinity will try his best to protect the girls….But we are “Men not Super Men” so as law..so as most of the thing which happens in our life are same thing like this “Those are not SUPER”… So men & women of this country…. Be aware.. make sure you did avoided possible harms like this… If still it happened…. it need to be condemned and like Shehnaz said……
Yes, It is our shame. I am too feeling guilty for this molestation/harassment/groping/rape happening in our surrounding by the MEN of our country in our daily life. We do not take serious steps until some disgusting things happen to us. Its our problem not theirs. We(Men) should take this shame as ours. Stalking to girls by us is happening daily in our surroundings, however change of thought in us needs to be done. We have to change the way we see a girl. We all know how can we stop this crime but we don`t do. So I will do my duty to make a change in the society and I request my all dear friends to come forward and talk to your friends and relatives to make a change in our society.Don`t wait to get our friend, sister,wife strike in the same situation. Be a part of change . Raise your voice. Its our shame not theirs.
Dear Sis,
May be I can’t give security for you as a bodyguard, but I assure anything seen in my life same like this, I will take care that sister. God bless you sis…
Shenaz is missing the point that the actual problem is that women in India are treated as sexual objects. Rape and molestation are just manifestation of this approach. Death sentence to rapists will not solve the real problem. EDUCATION WILL. There is no death sentence for rape in NY etc. The reason why women do not live in fear in Western countries is because men are educated and respect women there. Also, with the recent incident of Rohatak sisters, severe punishments should be handed out only when proven beyond doubt.
It was very shamefull to hear all this …you are a brave lady …hats off to you shenaaz
All the sexual offanders n gropers shud be brutally punished by the govt of india ..
Lets hope for best ..lets hope for huge change ….
@Mohd Vajir You are a fucking cunt….. Even if a woman walks naked on the streets, no man has any right to rape or even touch her WITHOUT her permission. Even if a WIFE is naked in front of her HUSBAND, until she gives him the permission he cannot touch her even within four walls. Imagine someone you know (or someone in your family is in that situation) what would you do, try protecting the woman or do otherwise. Shame on you, ridiculous post and posting a video shows how perverted your mind is.
our country need a strict law against all the rapist… what is our government doing?
when a woman in power over the last decade couldn’t so anything at for the welfare n safety of women, what more can you expect from a man who has just stepped in????
I am surprised to see this letter ( Autobiagrophy) is addressed to our Prime Minister Sri Narendra Modi and six Indian wealthiest celebrities out of that four are Bollywood leading actors, one is a famous cricketeer and the lost one is a leading capitalist. This lady Shenaz Treasurywala seems to be under the impression that these seven people are the only most powerful and influential men who could change the face of of our country by their power and influence.
After narrating all her ill experience with a few men who had groped her in several occasions she had concluded asking these seven people to demand enforcement of an act by which the rapists to be given death sentence. Do not we have a parliament to study what is happening in the country to pass the Bills? Do the members to be pressurised by some power full and influential persons? No doubt our Prime Minister can move the issue in the Parliament how about others?
I have heard the speech given by our beloved Prime Minister in Allphones Arena, Sydney, Australia. He has expressed very high hopes on Indian youths. He just dedicated the warm welcome, respect and enthusiasm he received at the Allphones Arena in Olympic Park to the 1.25 billion people of India. Prime Minister said, “ This welcome; This respect; This enthusiasm I dedicate it to the people of India. These incredible scenes and this massive reception in Sydney will galvanize India.” In his speech he said ” – Mother India has 250 crore arms and 200 crore arms are below 35 years of age. Indian youths hold the capacity to fulfill dreams. I cannot see one reason why our nation will not develop. We will move forward.
If he go through this letter I am afraid his hopes would be shaken to a limited extent. Any way some real action has to be taken in regard to the protection to Women and children and their safty, upholding their rights as per constitution of India. Let us give an able support to our new government to solve the major problems in our country and uphold the trust of our Prime Minister Narendra Modi kept on 200 crore arms of youth in our country and lead the country towards development.
Vande Matharam, Jai Hind.
Atta girl, it take a lot of courage… such people should be behind bars,and should never get to see sunlight again. Let them rot in darkness…
Dear Shehnaz,
I have complete sympathy for you, your sister and every woman out there who has been a victim of disgusting men. While i support the death sentence for convicted and proven rapists, allow me to point out that women have started using rape as a weapon to either get their way or sometimes for revenge in a dispute.
Since you are a celeb you are no stranger to the culture of live in relationships these days. The idea of live in relationship is to get to know your partner and living habits and at the end know if you are compatible with one another. But who are we kidding, it is just two “consenting” who wanna have “FUN”. So after a while if the guys does not find himself to be compatible the girl can easily file a rape case against him saying “rape on the pretense of marriage” i have read many such cases. Sure you must have read them too. What happens if the girl does not go through with the marriage? Can a guy file a similar complaint? Honestly he wouldn’t ,not because he does not want to its because no one cares what the guy wants and he will be mocked at.
The last time i checked an innocent man spent 7 years in prison for a rape he did not commit, bear witness to or even had knowledge of.
While the laws are not powerful enough to convict rapists, it does not protect the innocent either
Why do people think making laws more strict will solve this?The guy jumped off the train, where are you going to find him in this country. Do you really think people who can do such things are afraid? Even if we implement stringent laws if there are secluded s where such things can happen (and there are so many), if a girl is walking in the night and some rapes her and runs away in a bike/car, how are you going to catch him? The possibility of such heinous things happening is endless? How many will you scare off? And more than half of rapes that occur are committed by men who are of acquaintance to the women. The only way to deal with this problem his to knock it off it’s roots, create awareness educate people, by education I don’t not mean schooling I mean starting efforts and nation wide programs, be it villages or metros. What happens when a girl has been raped what trauma she goes through, how it affects their life, that she is not an object, that it may as well destroy her, that she has a life hopes and aspirations and how doing such a heinous thing will bottle her. We have nation wide anti smoking campaigns/ safe sex campaigns ( I am not comparing issues) why can’t we have nation wide education programs. THE REAL PROBLEM IS MEN NOT RESPECTING WOMEN. Yes make the laws strict, but unless we educate our children the future will always be bleak. I suggest we televised campaigns, at appropriate age we have sex-ed in our schools ditto for anti-rape. Education and respect for women is necessity be it for rural/urban boy/man. And yes then too there will exist people who will do such things, prosecute them severely.
Hats off mam…
Dear guys. Everytime you do this to another woman… remember your wives and daughters and sisters and mothers are going through the same thing, everyday. The more you do this to other women in the world, the more difficult it is for future generations to rectify.
Hope one day we have CCTV cameras to detect eye movement. We’ll really see how we Indian men fare. I have a girlfriend. I have a mother, I have a sister. Thankfully I don’t have a daughter. THANKFULLY I DON’T HAVE A SON EITHER.
To give you an example of the severity of this perverted male society… I’m pretty sure, there will be morons who would lech at the drawings of Kali maa, Durga maa, sarasvati maa’s countless paintings and posters we get on the streets. hundreds of assholes who don’t got to temples to ask for blessings or forgiveness. They go because CHANCE MILEGA. Fucking faggots.
Hats off to u shenaz
Its high time now..these rapists should be hanged till death..
I really appreciate the efforts of shenaz who raised her voice against these rapists.. Very true that there is no place in india which is safe from rape cases and eveteasing.
Even i would like to make a request to our bollywood stars that if you great men nd women , protest against the rape cases, and demand for security of girls , India could be a better place!! Narendra Modi, Amitabh bacchan , Shahrukh Khan , Amir Khan, Anil Ambani, Nd all other glorious ladies to the bollywood, You have the power to protest against these rape cases and make it safe for girls to go anywhere they would like to. I request you people to please raise your voice and pass orders for all rapists to be sentenced to death!!
And yes i agree with ur slogan shenaz that
“Its NOT OUR SHAME, ITS THEIR SHAME”
Women desire for a male child in this country, if not majority but still there is a large number.. okay..
Now, that boy is left free while mom cooks food,listens all his wishes, grows up..then shouts after controlling his decisions..Mom remains silent in love of the child..
His independent mind,alpha tendency grows and dominates sisters who cooks his food,
He marries, wife accepts his dominance too.
Now see the pathetic situation where discrimination starts in an average Indian boy’s lifestyle. When from household he learns him being superior gender, that he tends to follow and materialize females.
What must be done, it is to let boy realize that freedom is not inherited because you are male, so free are daughters. Parents treat their children in very controlling way where children learns. They refrain providing basics of mature discussion that leads youth learning in worst way “porn”. Bollywood shows Rapes, Male Heroes, women as material.. All products,nudity of women.. Plead for change at grass root level. Ask Bollywood, why it installs in mind though subconsciously women as materials ?
Now, As we know,eye for an eye make world blind. Will this govt. be so vigilant to even stop occurence of crime…? Surviellance and fast watching cameras,we boast tech..right ?
This society is victim because its aspirations to be globalized is sinful itself.
Dear Shenaz,
I appreciate this open letter you have addressed to some of the important men in India, but you have to remember one thing. All men are born to women. I have had a very proper upbringing all thanks to my granny who taught me not to go out of home without a reason, be back at home before 7 in the evening and not to talk to strangers randomly, inspite of being a guy. I am 38 years old and I still follow these rules as much as I can and everyone in my life is confident that the life I lead keeps me safe and sound. Men who grow up without seeing respect given to women will not learn to respect women. These are the men who become abusers and rapists of women. This is a problem at the foundation of every home and society. Women empowerment through education and instilling in men the need to respect women, especially in front of their kids can go a long way in improving the perception of women in the eyes of next generation of men. So whenever there is a problem, rather than looking outside, introspect first. Answers to most problems lies within the problems themselves.
I salute to this strong woman who stood up to something that has been a major problem in our county which has not been recognised for years !
I completely agree wid ur letter that this issue is a BIG and should have the first priority. I just have a problem with one of the lines in ur letter ie. u told ” Any man who even touches a woman should be imprisoned for life” and know I want to ask u that who is going to decide that the male touched her or not…..
please this about this…..
otherwise i completely agree that safety of WOMEN is important & all the persons who are present or walk away after knowing something wrong is happening with a female should be blamed.
WAKE UP POLITICIANS stop playing blame game …… we need action instead of ur criticism against each other……
Raped Again
Raped again and over again,
Every night I feel the same.
Raped again on life’s empty lanes,
This feeling gonna make me go insane.
Raped again by my friends today,
The best we can do is stay away.
Raped again and my rapist smiles,
Should hide somewhere for a while.
Raped again and I hide myself in a cage,
Wonder I m calm or in some kind of rage.
Raped again and my wounds are fresh,
Life stays in one mode called depressed.
Raped again and sustaining wounds is a matter of pride,
No one to trust, no one on my side.
Raped again and I no longer wait for tomorrow,
All it holds for me is nothing but dark sorrow.
Raped again and still the world is all the same,
Playing as usual all its dirty games.
Raped again and this time,
I don’t know whom to blame.
Brother, father please protect me from being raped again,
As it’s not my shame, it’s your shame. You are the one to be BLAMED
Jinx 666
The basic problem of our society starts in the first sentence of her letter. WHY IN THE HELL DO YOU THINK IT IS APPROPRIATE TO WRITE TO FILM STARS????? The whole concept of this shame is constantly being encouraged by BOLLYWOOD and these film stars support that. In their defense they say its their job. I say it is BULLSHIT, its the way for you to get richer and fattier that’s it. It is very easy to go against values and show things that everybody’s SENSEs are demanding and very easy to attract. In this age (which is called Kali Yug for a reason) it is very easy to poke someones senses and carry him away from goodness and that is what techniques they are using to make money. And people who know this and take advantage of this are called Demons(Rakshas).
In the country where bollywood is constantly encouraging this kind of behaviour why did you even think of giving this kind of utmost respect to these morons. I know you must be thinking of some item songs or third class movies but there are millions of examples where your so called listed actors have participated and are still doing. These morons don’t even think twice before commercializing something with their name which has horrible chemicals and harmful ingredients.
When are we going to STOP idolizing these morons?
Salute to her. India does not only need strict laws for rape and molestation but also fast track courts for speedy justice. Hope the celebrities note it and do something about it.
its all beacause in developing countires like ours the first priority is given to men n they themselves think as super hero since its our culture n tradition to respecet men does not matter if they are on good track or bad.Even parents discriminate between son n daughter.if daughter does a silly mistake , she’s punished physically or emotionally but if a son does even a blunder mistake, instead of punishing him parents will just say he’s a BOY.such little acts encourage boys to under go through wrong path.we’r living in such a society where if a girl raises her voice against something lets say equality, other girls(mostly women) won’t support instead they’l back bite.
change should be started from our home , from our mother from our farher from our brother from our sister..
I’d just like to say shame on u women who don’t support another needy woman
shame on u so called themselves as men but I classify them as cowardest who try to molest women !!
Shenaz u go girl and the open letter is just incredbile !!
I completely agree with your letter that this issue is a BIG and should have the first priority. I just have a problem with one of the lines in your letter ie. u told ” Any man who even touches a woman should be imprisoned for life” and know I want to ask u that who is going to decide that the male touched her or not…..
please this about this…..
otherwise i completely agree that safety of WOMEN is important & all the persons who are present or walk away after knowing something wrong is happening with a female should be blamed.
WAKE UP POLITICIANS stop playing blame game …… we need action instead of your criticism against each other……