Life lessons from Dr Shah Rukh Khan at University Of Edinburgh

Bollywood superstar Shah Rukh Khan delivered a lecture on life lessons at the University of Edinburgh, where he was presented with the Degree of Doctor Honoris Causa.

We have SRK’s full speech below.

Dr Shah Rukh Khan

Dr Shah Rukh Khan

So here’s my first life lesson, inspired by the movie title ‘Deewana’: MaMadness (of the particularly nice / romantic kind) is an absolute prerequisite to a happy and successful life. Don’t ever treat your little insanities as if they are aberrations that ought to be hidden from the rest of the world. Acknowledge them and us them to define your own way of living the only life you have. All the beautiful people in the world, the most creative, the ones who led revolutions, who discovered and invented things, did so because they embraced their own idiosyncrasies. There’s no such thing as “normal”. That’s just another word for lifeless.

Life Lesson 2: So my next lesson is the following: If you ever find yourself cheated of all your money and sleeping on a grave, do not fear, a miracle is near, either that or a ghost. All you have to do is fall asleep! In other words, no matter how bad it gets, life IS the miracle you are searching for. There is no other one around the corner. Develop the faith in it to let it take its own course, make all the effort you can to abide by its beauty and it will not let you down. Use every resource you have been given, your mental faculties, the ability of your heart to love and feel for those around you, your health and good fortune: all of the thousands of gifts life has given you to their maximum potential. Honour your life. Honour each gift and each moment by not laying it to waste. There is no real measure of success in this world except the ability to make good of life’s endowments to you.

Life Lesson 3: Darr means fear in Hindi and everyone always tells you that you ought to be brave so I’m not going to bore you with that idea. Instead let me tell you this: Being brave means being shit scared all the way to the party but getting there and doing the Funky Chicken in front of all your teenage kid’s friends anyway. Let me just add on behalf of all the fathers of the world who have embarrassed their children by doing this…it takes a lot of bravery resolve and grit to do this. So do it. Don’t let your fears become boxes that enclose you. Open them out, feel them and turn them into the greatest courage you are capable of. I promise you, nothing will go wrong. But if you live by your fears, everything that can possibly go wrong will go wrong and you wont even have done the Funky Chicken.

Life Lesson 4: Life lesson number four rears its head: Give of yourself to others. And while you’re at it, make sure you realise that you aren’t doing anyone any favours by being kind. It’s all just to make you feel that sneaky little twinge that comes from being utterly pleased with yourself. After all, the one that gets the most benefit out of any act of kindness or charity that you do will always be you. I don’t say this, as many see it, in a transactive or karmic way. It’s not an “I do good, I get benefit” equation with some white bearded figure taking notes from the heavens above. It’s a simple truth. An act of goodness becomes worthless when you assign a brownie point to yourself for it, no matter how subtly you allow yourself to do so. As benevolent as your gesture might be; someone else could have made it too. Regardless of how rich, successful and famous you become, don’t ever underestimate the grace that other people bestow upon you just by being the recipients of your kindnesses. You might be able to buy your friend a Rolls for his/her birthday but its no substitute for a patient hearing of your sulky rants on a bad hair day.

Life Lesson 5: So my fifth lesson is this: When life hits you with all the force of its resplendent rage, the Rolls isn’t going to give you comfort. A friend’s grace will, and if you can’t find resolution as easily as you would like to, don’t panic. Everything evolves as you go along, Chalte Chalte as we say in Hindi (and yes, that was another movie I did but no more mad plots for God’s sake!!) Even disasters eventually resolve themselves. Give life the space to move at its own pace, pushing it ahead only by way of being kind to yourself when you are hurting or in despair. You don’t always have to figure things out or find an explanation for the circumstances you are in.

Life Lesson 6: All the names you give yourself, or those that others call you, are just labels. You are not defined by them no matter how flattering or uncomplimentary they are. What defines you is your heart. Ask The Artist Formerly Known As Prince!! And learn a thing or two from him, if you don’t believe this insanely sexy Indian Superstar standing in front of you. And I say this out of experience because if I was to go by what all I am called on Social Media I would be an old desperate manipulative has been star who swings both ways while making crap movies, and these are just the good mentions.

Life Lesson 7: Whatever it is that is pulling you back, its not going away unless you stand up and start forging your own path with all your might in the opposite direction. Stop whining and start moving, so to speak. Sadness and happiness have the same quality of transience. Life is a balanced exchange of one with the other. And this is lesson number eight: Don’t attach yourself to either, they’re both going to change with the same certitude. Take them with the ephemeral spirit of their impermanence and manage them with a healthy dose of good humour. Laugh at yourself when you are despairing, shed a tear or two when one of my movie plots makes you hysterical with laughter.

Life Lesson 8 (final): Live from the heart. Dil Se. Love. Love people, love the world around you, love animals and birds, and big cities and mountains, love dreams, love life, love your work, your friends and your enemies even if you feel least like it. Most importantly, my friends; love yourselves. Embrace all that this life has in store for you, let your heart be as deep as the deepest ocean and as wide as the farthest horizon. Know that it is limitless. Love is not an excuse to grab or to hold or to own or to barter. It is the only excuse you will ever have to call yourself special. And if someone you love lets you down, don’t fault yourself for not trusting him, fault yourself for not trusting your love enough to forgive his/her trespasses.

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133 Comments

  • Here is the video of the interview

    httpvh://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-pIbTvKqJQ

    Bollywood star Shah Rukh Khan receives honorary degree

    #2ndDoctorateForKingKhan

    King Khan rules bollywood since 1992 .

  • SRK received doctorate from prestigious universities.

    Salman Khan gets calls from police & Summons from Court.

    Difference. Difference. Difference. Difference. Difference.

  • Dr. Shah rukh Khan is the legend of Indian Cinema.
    Truly the king of everything..

    His dilwaale will be cult classic blockbuster..
    Also his line-up is truly superb next year with Raees coming…

  • These are the things that make Shah Rukh Khan different from the rest of B’wood. Proud to be a fan of the biggest/proudest star/actor ever. Keep ruling/Rocking Dr. Shah Rukh Khan. you’re the best .

  • Great comment by @xzone:

    SRK gets honoured with doctorate degree, masters degree, certificate of excellence etc, whereas our beloved criminal khan gets conferred with Section 304A (causing death by negligence, punishable with imprisonment up to two years), 304 Part II (culpable homicide not amounting to murder), section 149 (unlawful assembly) etc. Feel the difference, feel the shame …!

  • this era of film fraternity is actually glorified by srk…where an actor is so much more than an actor..he has excelled in every field..he is probably the only actor whom you can like even without liking his films…he is my source of inspiration..may god bless you sir!!…tons of love from your fans worldwide!!

  • every 1knws here…im salman fan
    bt proud of u srk… he knws hw to behave in big platforms n win hearts..he is very gud..he reads alot of books n have great knowledge and vocablery..
    gud going srk…
    sm day amir too will do smthng tht will cross all limits fr an indian in entrtainment industry on international platform….
    while salman will be remembered as peoples man… hero of common indian after amitabh…

  • Ha ha ha! Congrats, Dr. Shah Rukh Khan!! But could you possibly cure your mentally fan from Gorillazone of Animal Planet? Will you still keep in smoking in chain? Will you still attack guys like Shirish Kunder from behind like a coward? Will you still ham ‘Meh…Meh…Meh…” at US Airport and get detained? Well, Kutte Ki Doom, Kabhi Sidhi Nahin Hote!

  • LOL! Congrats, Dr. Shah Rukh Khan!! But could you possibly cure your mentally sick fan from Gorillazone of Animal Planet? Will you still keep in smoking in chain? Will you still attack guys like Shirish Kunder from behind like a coward? Will you still ham ‘Meh…Meh…Meh…” at US Airport and get detained? Well, Kutte Ki Doom, Kabhi Sidhi Nahin Hote!

  • He is the only khan who is eligable to give these lessons
    Others khans hav had easy in their life
    No comparisions to d amount of struggle he has done in his life

    #Legendsrk

  • While many people term ‘life lessons’ as being preachy, but it’s worth lending a patient ear to successful individuals who have outdone big hurdles and have established themselves.

    Reading philosophy can be boring, but its totally worth the pain. Appreciate srk for sharing his experiences! Hope we can learn something from it!

  • The Honors, the achievements, the stardome & the respect the Baadshah of Bollywood has achieved and received nationally and internationally as well ,, None Bollwood actors can ever think about it to get half of that. Shah Rukh Khan is the pride of Hindi Cinema,, SRK is the the Pride of country . He has totally changed the name of B’wood Internationally since he step into B’wood which none couldn’t even do 5% of that, nor will do in future which we have witnessed it .

    Some International achievements of SRK : https://pbs.twimg.com/media/B8LMvzKCAAA5kEI.jpg

    PROUD TO BE A FAN OF SHAH RUKH KHAN AKA KING OF BOLLYWOOD , DR. SHAH RUKH KHAN .

  • Thousands of miles away they are dressed in Indian clothes , just for SRK. He represents India :)

    #2ndDoctorateForKingKhan

  • There is not a single actor in the whole wide world who can match SRK’s eloquence & intellect.. He’s just unique! #2ndDoctorateForKingKhan

  • Now the Baadshah of B’wood, Dr. Shah Rukh Khan received “Honorary doctorate from the University of Edinburgh for the 2nd time” whereas Salman is still stucked in court cases.. SHAME!

  • Great its party time guys.

    This day will be written in Golden Laters in History of our Planet.

    Here is the list of few more legends who also got doctorate :-

    Dr.Priety Zinta
    Dr.Shilpa Shetty
    Dr.Akshay Kumar
    Dr.Lalu Prasad Yadav
    Dr.Shashi Tharur

  • Imagine Salman Khan giving such type of lecture ( i know we can’t even imagine it first as he doesn’t even know how to speak English properly, 2nd as criminals are not allowed even to go abroad ) and his lecture tagline would be ” Salman Khan : Thinking mein bhi takla ho ja oooooon ” ROFL .

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